Answer this…

Weddings…weddings…weddings. One of ny colleagues got married today, they both look young and in love, grinning at each other with many sweet unspoken words. Their family and friends were also very happy and obviously proud of these folks. The major things I liked about my outing today was the simplicity and blend of different cultures…

Thanks Phil

Earlier this afternoon I tried to do a form of “environmental sanitation” on my phone. I was deleting some old pictures in order to create space on my phone’s memory card. As expected I saw pictures that brought many memories…both good and bad. I stumbled on an appreciation e-card I got from Phil (my colleague)…

730 days After…

You have to be wary of who you call your friends. Today at work (during lunch) I opened up to my colleagues – these are people I call friends. I told them today is exactly 730 days my dad passed on, I told them I was feeling so emotional and needed some love.I gave them…

Rest

The last weekend was a very unique one for me. My weekends are usually characterised by gyming, swimming, (lots of) cooking, church activities and TV. But the last weekend was totally different, I managed to do one hour session at the gym and spent the entire weekend sleeping – I mean total REST. I could…

Peace

Monday morning meetings are usually dreadful, it is a time to give account of the previous week. A time to get an applause or a lash. I remember stammering, blabbling and speaking “grammar” during some Monday meetings. At the end I will sigh and say – I scaled through another Monday! Similar to other organisations,…

No be today…

Yesterday an old dear friend who I have decided to call Segs reached out to me. He has been nominated for a creative award and he was soliciting votes. Segs was my 1st friend in High School, we were roommates all through my Junior years. Apart from Segs generosity and height (he was taller than…

Hard Work, Works

Wow! It is good to resume writing after a long break. I have alot to share, many lessons I have picked along the line. I had a catch up with my Line Manager earlier in the week, he shared a popular quote from Denzel Washington – Hard work, works! You will agree with me that…

Digi…

Iya ni wuraBaba ni digi…These are popular lines in my mother tongue, it means:Mother is goldFather is a mirror…For years I pondered and wondered why Mothers are considered so precious and Fathers considered cheap.Gold is precious, expensive, adorable and it is an element of pride to the public – You show off your gold.But mirror…

Cakes

My father had a stroke in January 2000, that was the lowest point of his life. I saw him battle and clinge to life. It was a very trying season for the family, I remember everyone coming home and staying by his sick bed praying and hoping for his recovery. Exactly a week after the…

93 Days II

93 days continuation 3. The Denials These are people that will not face their realities, denial is a coping mechanism for some people but it never last. You need to face your reality and fight today while you envisage that future state of celebration and enjoyment. The truth is celebration is ahead, freedom is ahead…

93 Days

I wonder if there are people like me that do not like watching true life movies – it reminds me of reality, it is a peep into other people’s life and the world we live in. 93 days is a Nigerian movie – one of the best I have seen – it tried to capture…

Little things

Recently, I have been quite overwhelmed with visions and plans that seem to be taking forever to materialise. It was like the more I achieve the farther I am far away from that ideal life. On one of “those mornings” I woke up tired, I knew I needed to talk with someone, I needed to…